Transform Your Co-Parenting Journey
From Conflict to Cooperation: Building a Peaceful Path Forward for Your Family
Divorce and separation can be overwhelming—but co-parenting doesn't have to be. Together Apart helps parents navigate change, reduce conflict, and build a cooperative co-parenting relationship that puts your children's wellbeing first.
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Because while relationships may end, family is forever.
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Our goal?
To help you create the best possible future for your children—without unnecessary conflict or stress.
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The Challenge of Co-Parenting After Separation
Co-parenting after separation brings unique challenges that can feel impossible to overcome. You're not alone in experiencing:
Communication Breakdowns
Conversations that once were simple now become tense and difficult. Every message seems to be misinterpreted, and finding common ground feels impossible.
Emotional Triggers
Past hurts and unresolved feelings create emotional landmines that can explode during even the most routine co-parenting interactions.
Impact on Children
Children caught in the middle of parental conflict experience stress, anxiety, and divided loyalties that can affect their development and wellbeing.
Practical Coordination
Coordinating schedules, making joint decisions, and maintaining consistent parenting approaches becomes exponentially more difficult after separation.
Is Your Co-Parenting Relationship on the Right Track?
​Co-parenting after separation can be challenging—communication breakdowns, unresolved conflicts, and differing parenting styles can make it even harder. But how do you know if your current approach is working or if extra support could help?
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Take our Co-Parenting Communication Audit to assess where you and your co-parent stand. In just a few minutes, you’ll gain clarity on:
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Your current level of communication
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The biggest challenges you’re facing
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How conflict is affecting your co-parenting dynamic
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Ready to get started? Take the quiz now and start improving your co-parenting journey today!
Your Path to Peaceful Co-Parenting
Together Apart offers three powerful ways to transform your co-parenting relationship:
Professional Mediation Services
Expert Guidance for Complex Co-Parenting Challenges
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As a family mediator with specialized training in high-conflict separation, I help parents create workable agreements and communication strategies that benefit everyone—especially your children.
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Resolve disputes over parenting arrangements
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Develop clear communication protocols
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Create parenting plans that grow with your children
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Navigate complex emotions while focusing on practical solutions
Transform Your Co-Parenting Online Course
Practical Tools for Immediate Implementation
Our comprehensive 10-module online program gives you the exact tools, scripts, and strategies you need to communicate effectively, manage emotions, and create a cooperative co-parenting relationship—even if your ex isn't on board.
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Learn at your own pace from anywhere
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Gain immediate access to proven communication techniques
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Join a supportive community of parents on similar journeys
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Apply practical strategies that work even in high-conflict situations
"Exes, Not Enemies" Book
A Compassionate Blueprint for Peaceful Co-Parenting
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This practical guide offers a step-by-step approach to transforming your co-parenting relationship from adversarial to cooperative. Filled with real-world examples, exercises, and actionable advice for every stage of your co-parenting journey.
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Understand the psychological dynamics of separation
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Learn proven communication techniques that defuse conflict
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Create boundaries that protect everyone's wellbeing
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Build a co-parenting relationship that supports your children's development
How We Help You Transform Your Co-Parenting Experience
From Conflict to Calm Communication
Replace heated arguments with productive conversations focused on your children's needs, even when emotions run high.
From Confusion to Clear Boundaries
Establish healthy boundaries that protect everyone's wellbeing while allowing for flexible, child-centered cooperation.
From Reactive to Responsive Parenting
Develop emotional regulation skills that help you respond thoughtfully rather than react emotionally to co-parenting challenges.
From Parallel to Purposeful Co-Parenting
Move beyond simply avoiding each other to creating an intentional co-parenting partnership that supports your children's development.
From Stress to Structured Solutions
Replace anxiety-producing uncertainty with clear agreements and protocols that everyone understands.
From Isolation to Informed Support
Access professional guidance and connect with others who understand your journey, providing both emotional support and practical advice.
About Your Guide
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As a family mediator with specialized training in high-conflict separation, I've helped hundreds of parents transform their co-parenting relationships from battlegrounds to partnerships.
My approach combines practical communication tools with deeper insights into relationship patterns, helping parents move beyond the pain of separation to create a cooperative co-parenting relationship focused on their children's wellbeing.
I believe that with the right support, every family can find their path to peaceful co-parenting—because your children deserve parents who can work together, even if they're no longer together.
Take the First Step Toward Peaceful Co-Parenting
Assess Your Current Situation
Take our Co-Parenting Communication Quiz to identify your specific challenges and receive personalized recommendations.
Explore Our Resources
Browse our free resources, including articles, worksheets, and videos designed to help you start improving your co-parenting relationship today.
Book a Consultation
Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to discuss your specific situation and discover which of our services best meets your needs.
Get in Touch
If you'd like to know more about how family mediation and conflict coaching can help you navigate separation and divorce, get in touch via +64 22 4084819 or use the form below for any questions you might have. Public funding is available within New Zealand, conditions apply.
M: +64 22 4084819
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