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Support for changing families

Divorce and separation can be overwhelming—but co-parenting doesn’t have to be. Together Apart helps parents navigate change, reduce conflict, and build a cooperative co-parenting relationship. Because while relationships may end, family is forever.

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Our goal?

 To help you create the best possible future for your children—without unnecessary conflict or stress.

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Is Your Co-Parenting Relationship on the Right Track?

​Co-parenting after separation can be challenging—communication breakdowns, unresolved conflicts, and differing parenting styles can make it even harder. But how do you know if your current approach is working or if extra support could help?

Take our Co-Parenting Communication Quiz to assess where you and your co-parent stand. In just a few minutes, you’ll gain clarity on:

  • Your current level of communication

  • The biggest challenges you’re facing

  • How conflict is affecting your co-parenting dynamic

At the end of the quiz, you'll be invited to a free 15-minute personal consultation to discuss your results and get some immediate next steps you can take to improve your co-parenting.

 

 Ready to get started? Take the quiz now and start improving your co-parenting journey today!

How we help

Family Dispute Resolution

Resolve disputes over your children’s care through structured mediation and facilitated conversations—helping you reach agreements that work for everyone.

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Conflict and separation coaching

Feeling stuck in the emotional whirlwind of separation? Get practical tools and emotional support to help you move forward—even if your ex partner isn’t ready to engage.

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Communication training

Break free from the same old arguments. Learn clear, calm, and constructive communication strategies to co-parent more effectively. Online training coming soon.

Why Together Apart?

A Clear Path Through the Chaos

Navigating separation means dealing with lawyers, mediators, courts, and well-meaning but overwhelming advice. We help you cut through the noise and focus on what matters most—building a peaceful, workable co-parenting relationship.

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Stronger Parents, Stronger Kids

Separation is hard on everyone, especially children. We help you manage conflict and co-parent with confidence—so your kids feel safe, secure, and supported.

No One-Size-Fits-All Solutions

Every family is different, and so is every co-parenting arrangement. We work with you to create a plan that fits your unique situation—while adapting as your family grows and changes.

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Mums and dads experience separation differently

There are many factors that determine people's experience of a breakup - the views of friends and extended family, social norms, cultural context, personal history and experience to name a few. Mothers and fathers respond to a relationship breakup in different ways - and they experience different responses from their environment. 

That's why, at Together Apart, we ensure that both parents are supported in the way that works for them, with a mix of tools and strategies.

This too shall pass

No matter how hard it all seems right now - there is something on the other side. Many families have used mediation to come to positive arrangements that meet the needs of both parents and children - and they are moving on with their lives together apart. 

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Get in Touch

If you'd like to know more about how family mediation and conflict coaching can help you navigate separation and divorce, get in touch via +64 22 4084819 or use the form below for any questions you might have. Public funding is available within New Zealand, conditions apply.

M: +64 22 4084819

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